Tuesday, 28 January 2014

10 obvious stuffs a guy does that shows he likes that girl

This is solely from my own or a guy's own perspective. So basically this topic just randomly appeared in my mind ( stuffs i think about when i'm bored ). I always thought that all guys do the same as me ( well maybe just a minority or only me ) idk.

10.The guy obtain his dream girl's hp no indirectly

Haha this prolly was what most guy are facing most of the time. We guys don't simply just ask the handphone no of that particular girl directly. We get their number thru like maybe if both the guy and the girl are classmates or cca friends then we create whatsapp groups right? Simply scroll through the group info and WALA the number appears. I noe using this way to obtain the number is abit "xia suey" la but sometime when a guy feels like "is this girl going to give me her number of what?, is she expecting me to make the first move?", this is the period where the method apply effectively. Who knows? that girl might be overjoy? ( You know after reading lots of blogs and articles on "Stuffs girls expect guys to do" etc ) Using indirect methods to obtain her number might be part of the "INITIATIVE" a girl expects maybe? lol

9.The guy takes note of every single detail of the girl naturally

I know most girls find it sweet but this is a obvious action that can be seen if the guy like that particular girl.
Lets say you already had obtain the number of the girl. Chat chat chat chat chat chat, then suddenly talks on the topic of fruits. The girl said "I want pomegranate" (what a weird fruit i noe but i get that alot). Someday on a special event or some random outing the guy gets that pomegranate or pomegranate juice for the girl. I KNOW RIGHT? like sometime we can fail our test or exams due to forgetfulness but somehow i don't know how but somehow WE (guys lah) remember this things very naturally, we don't particularly pay attention but in actual fact when faced in similar situation, that image of the text just appears before our minds. 

8.The guy can forget about his lunch, or friends outing just to spend time with his dream girl 

Even for a short while, it is still worth it just to even get a sneak glance of your pretty face. Lunch time for 1 hour? forget it i rather spend it with you. Every minute every seconds is worth spending with you. Even if you don't know that you like me even if you don't notice me i'll still try my best to spend it with you. Girls? this is what we guys usually do if we really like you. IDK some girls who did not even bother or notice us or better yet give us any hints, sometime we guys just want our particular dream girl to be happy. 

7.The guy do stuffs a girl tell her to do

Well there was once i was chatting to this girl that i like ( Some random chatting la ). Then she suddenly spam "I want Milktea, i want ice cream, i want donut, i want pizza, i want pasta" ikr girls haha. But somehow even if the guy cannot satisfy her, the guy still try his best to get one of her cravings to that girl. Sometime a bit of a "you don't venture, you don't gain" haha the guy deliver personally her cravings straight to her house door. Even if in wee hours, get woke up by her text we still do it... imagine if its our family member asking us to go downstairs to buy daily necessity lol i don't even want to get there. 人就是这样,有兴趣的东西不管有多辛苦我们还是会尽心尽力去把它做好. Meaning people are like this, once we are interested no matter how tough how boring how le che or mafan it is we still do it, it satisfy us. 

6.The guy pauses his game to chat with his dream girl

Well.... i'm like that. Even if im about to die in game soon ( Don't go there, i'm not a dota or diablo person in fact i actually yawn and slept before the game even started ). IMO that girl text me, at the very least i text her back even if in game that bad ass boss is kicking your ass and you are at the brink of death, i would just restart the game and go thru the ordeal again. Well that's just me. Game is game, girl i like is girl i like, its 2 different things and i prioritize which one is more important. 

5.The guy immediately arrange his hair or outfit whenever he spotted his dream girl

So obvious la, who wants to look ugly, messy or unkempt in front of the person you like. You'll die trying to get her just to glance you even if its for a second. I mean ya la most guys or you could say all guys does that, you be like "Wheres the mirror wheres the mirror, wait i could just use this as my reflection, Whip out le phone and check for messy hair" haha wtf

4.The guy stutter while talking to his dream girl

Consider it nervous but yeh we guys do actually. Some girls immediately thru this realise that the guy actually like her, well some don't. IDK we stutter because we consistently dk what to say, our minds are blank. At the same time we want to impress you girls, at the same time we don't want to portray an "HAO LIAN" image to you girls. The inconsistent balance made us stutter like alot. So here a tip, let the girl talk first. We guys usually just go with the flow and slowly but surely the conversation goes smoothly and both party would not realize that time actually bypass really quickly when you're really into it. #tipoftheday

3.Guy's friends separate themselves when they spotted his dream girl

This is a obvious scene too. This shows that the guy already told his friend that he like that girl therefore to prevent being the lightbulb they separate themselves and leave it to the 2 love birds. HAHA this is not the end, the guy friend will then follow them and then sit one corner  看好戏 or watch "MOVIE" if you know what i mean. Sometimes this happens, sometimes it happened in another way. Well you see even if the guy already told his friend, they sometime very 欠打 or deserved to be wacked always want to KA JIAO. They see their particular friend's dream girl, they will say whatever things that make both of them very paiseh or embarrassed especially towards the guy, They be like "eh you want to eat together anot? or you want to eat with her and then... you know ah.. then all together they shout "OH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!". Yup thats when reality hits you hard.

2.The guy always gives in to his girl

Maybe it affect our conscience, maybe it is us acting as a gentleman but during a friendly game, during a bonding session ( don't say competition la ) we guys would give in to the girl that we like. YES WE PURPOSELY LOSE so that the girl can win. Its that smile on her face, that smile is the actual prize a guy wants. Lets say there is this water balloon game, all water balloon are thrown but you had 2 in your hand. You were about to throw the balloon when suddenly, your crush appear before you, telling you not to throw it... well telling you to pass it to her. The guy lose in the end. Even if the guy loses, he will still have that sense of victory as he saw her smiling face. So girls? next time when you see a guy does that to you, you know what that means.

1.The guy is always the first to comfort his dream girl

Thats right, even faster then the girl's friends. Because once you like someone, you don't have to read from her face, you feel it in your heart that she's sad. There are also times we guys would leave you because we wanted to give you girls some space, we do not want to appear inferior to your private space, a time where you would just need time to adjust. However do not forget, the guy will always be there for you. As guys we might suck trying to be romantic and all sort but when it comes to comforting we usually, naturally choose the right time and right words to say to prevent any further harm or damage to the girl's heart. 

Soooooo basically that sums up what i wanted to say. I'm saying this again, this is purely from what i experienced and from a typical guy's perspective. Feels great to just type it all out rather then just thinking it to myself. 3 CHEERS for first post and new blog. I definitely do this more often cos its really fun and it creates a memory for me too. Do check out Redbluebitches.blogspot.sg. That's my shared blog with blue bitch aka Azri, we usually blog there if we had any outings together.  Well thats it for now, if i'm bored or when i feel its necessary to relieve the load off my mind, i most prolly do the next 10 stuffs shits again. 

BIYEE!!!